This is a debate that has been going on for so long between women and men alike. It most recently came up for discussion when I chopped my shoulder length hair into a cute, super short pixie. Do I miss my hair? Am I going to grow it back out? Do I feel less feminine...all the way to asking me if I'm a lesbian?(the last one I laughed at as I am very much in love with Sir and have four children, so No, not a lesbian)
The answer to all of these questions is NO.
Take a look at the picture above. There is absolutely no doubt about how feminine and drop dead sexy this woman is. The short locks open up her features and actually make her sexier! The pixie did the same for me(minus the mile long legs on the model...heh heh). From some of the men I talked to, most asked Sir if He missed grabbing hold of my longer hair, to which He replied: "Absolutely NOT." He always said it got in the way and that He hated having to brush my hair out of the way to see my face. I find this amusing and a little ironic as Sir has hair down past His shoulders and I love it on Him.
It just goes to show that it isn't the length of you hair that makes you sexy or determines your sexuality. It's who you are. Did I look good with long hair? Sure! Do I feel more confident and sexy now? Absolutely. It would be the reverse for Sir. He hated it when His hair was cropped short and it showed in His demeanor.
He's not a stereotypical dirty hippy and I'm not a man hating feminist.
I say, to each their own. If you like long hair keep your hair long and vice versa.
What is your take on this age old debate?